Tuesday, August 11, 2015

It is easy to fall in love.

A junior today while telling about her life told an incident how she fell in love with her ex-husband. Her ex-husband gifted her a CD of Yanni with a soft kiss and she fell in love, it was that easy.

Yes, loving is easy. It is actually very easy to fall in love. The tough part is the denial or the fact when one starts to think with one's head the relationship becomes so complicated. It just takes a moment, a moment for the cupid to strike and before you know you are in love. It takes time to realise that you are in love, the revelation to yourself is again a lovely feeling.

My brother fell in love with his colleague , when asked what was it that made him fall in love with her, he candidly said it was a SMS in the morning of 'Mahalaya' from her when he was on his way to click pictures at the Ganga in his newly bought DSLR camera. He was just about to get down from the bus when his phone beeped , it was a SMS from her , it read what does the eye on the lens see?? A simple message but enough for my brother to start seeing his colleague differently.

A friend once told that he fell in love for the first time with a girl whose name he doesn't know , whose face he doesn't remember , he only remembers two pair of bright eyes , eyes which spoke million words without speaking any. He was in college, he visited one of his relative's village and went to a fair held there. In a merry-go-round he sat opposite a girl unknown to him. All through the ride of 10/15 minutes when there was shouting , screaming , chaos all around ...they just looked and kept on staring at each other's eyes without even speaking. Time over, the merry-go-round came to a halt they got down and went their way , never to meet again. He says that after that he had many relationships but he never experienced that feeling ever,

A simple word , a simple phrase , a simple action , a simple gesture can make you fall in love...can also make you fall in love all over again. The moment matters...maybe that action or that phrase told in some other circumstance, to some other person would never have that effect. You never know when that moment comes in life. Someone once told a simple phrase told by the lady , ' I feel suffocated if I don't talk to you for one day ' was what he could never forget till date.  Or  , ' I need someone to talk to , I have no one with whom I can talk ' are million words spoken in one sentence.

There is no particular day , no lovers day...your day can be any day  , a sunny day , a humid day , a cloudy day , a stormy day...absolutely any day...what matters is how and when you connect . The moment you connect you get hooked for a lifetime. It is actually very easy to fall in love ...it is not tough to stay in love either...the space there is really beautiful.

" I fell in love the way you fall asleep : slowly , and then all at once . "

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